i’m not very good at this kind of advice. my approach is committing yourself to misery so fervently that it eventually exhausts you and resigns into a dull pain from a phantom limb. just wait it out a few months till you get to the place where seeing a kit kat bar doesn’t make you cry cause those were their favorite. there’s no real answer other than 2 experience it full blast for awhile, i don’t trust people who think you can skip that part because when u try to skate forward you end up holding onto the tendrils of “what could have been” and “why” instead of letting it rest. i think as long as you’re not harming yourself or being emotionally manipulative to anyone, weepy lamenting is the healthiest way to go about things- let the plant bloom then die inside till you have new seeds instead of neglecting tending to it at all and hoping not watering is enough- if that makes any sense. ahaha. you’ll see them at a party someday in an ugly sweater and wonder why you ever thought they were worth your tears.


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