Tuesday, 3 March 2015

Do you have any advice for someone newly broken up in getting over it? What did you do to get past it because right now I still want to die all the time

i’m not very good at this kind of advice. my approach is committing yourself to misery so fervently that it eventually exhausts you and resigns into a dull pain from a phantom limb. just wait it out a few months till you get to the place where seeing a kit kat bar doesn’t make you cry cause those were their favorite. there’s no real answer other than 2 experience it full blast for awhile, i don’t trust people who think you can skip that part because when u try to skate forward you end up holding onto the tendrils of “what could have been” and “why” instead of letting it rest. i think as long as you’re not harming yourself or being emotionally manipulative to anyone, weepy lamenting is the healthiest way to go about things- let the plant bloom then die inside till you have new seeds instead of neglecting tending to it at all and hoping not watering is enough- if that makes any sense. ahaha. you’ll see them at a party someday in an ugly sweater and wonder why you ever thought they were worth your tears.


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